John Irving

John Irving

"When someone you love dies, and you're not expecting it, you don't lose her all at once; you lose her in pieces over a long time—the way the mail stops coming, and her scent fades from the pillows and even from the clothes in her closet and drawers. Gradually, you accumulate the parts of her that are gone. Just when the day comes—when there's a particular missing part that overwhelms you with the feeling that she's gone, forever—there comes another day, and another specifically missing part."
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"When someone you love dies, and you're not expecting it, you don't lose her all at once; you lose her in pieces over a long time—the way the mail stops coming, and her scent fades from the pillows and even from the clothes in her closet and drawers. Gradually, you accumulate the parts of her that are gone. Just when the day comes—when there's a particular missing part that overwhelms you with the feeling that she's gone, forever—there comes another day, and another specifically missing part."
John Irving A Prayer for Owen Meany
"You've got to get obsessed and stay obsessed."
John Irving The Hotel New Hampshire
"If you care about something you have to protect it – If you’re lucky enough to find a way of life you love, you have to find the courage to live it."
John Irving A Prayer for Owen Meany
"It is hard work and great art to make life not so serious."
John Irving The Hotel New Hampshire
"Life is serious but art is fun!"
John Irving
"And I find - I'm 63, and my capacity to be by myself and just spend time by myself hasn't diminished any. That's the necessary part of being a writer, you better like being alone."
John Irving
"I'm not writing non-fiction. I don't feel anything about me as a kid was unique. Except that I had more interest in being alone and using my imagination."
John Irving
"I suppose I'm proudest of my novels for what's imagined in them. I think the world of my imagination is a richer and more interesting place than my personal biography."
John Irving
"It's not very interesting to establish sympathy for people who, on the surface, are instantly sympathetic. I guess I'm always attracted to people who, if their lives were headlines in a newspaper, you might not be very sympathetic about them."
John Irving
"I take people very seriously. People are all I take seriously, in fact. Therefore, I have nothing but sympathy for how people behave - and nothing but laughter to console them with."
John Irving
"With every book, you go back to school. You become a student. You become an investigative reporter. You spend a little time learning what it's like to live in someone else's shoes."
John Irving
"The building of the architecture of a novel - the craft of it - is something I never tire of."
John Irving
"To each other, we were as normal and nice as the smell of bread. We were just a family. In a family even exaggerations make perfect sense."
John Irving
"I grew up around books - my grandmother's house, where I lived as a small child, was full of books. My father was a history teacher, and he loved the Russian novels. There were always books around."
John Irving
"The object of war is to survive it."
John Irving
"Writing a novel is actually searching for victims. As I write I keep looking for casualties. The stories uncover the casual"
John Irving
"Good habits are worth being fanatical about."
John Irving
"“When someone you love dies, and you're not expecting it, you don't lose her all at once; you lose her in pieces over a long time—the way the mail stops coming, and her scent fades from the pillows and even from the clothes in her closet and drawers. Gradually, you accumulate the parts of her that are gone. Just when the day comes—when there's a particular missing part that overwhelms you with the feeling that she's gone, forever—there comes another day, and another specifically missing part.”"
John Irving A Prayer for Owen Meany
"“You've got to get obsessed and stay obsessed.”"
John Irving The Hotel New Hampshire
"The lie, of course, is more interesting."
John Irving
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