"Letting go is not getting rid of memories. Memories will stay, they always do. Letting go is making sure that the pain associated with the memories goes away."
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"Letting go is not getting rid of memories. Memories will stay, they always do. Letting go is making sure that the pain associated with the memories goes away."
"memories brings some past that dealt with the pain and yet we choose to embrace it as if we have a lot to gain."
"We can not say for the memories "go away", we can only protect us as they hit."
"My view [is] that what morality boils down to is, 'Donβt harm, and do help.' And now the question is, 'Can creatures like chickens and cows be harmed' And the answer is, 'Of course they can.' Consequently, I think itβs immoral to harm them. And that seems to me to provide a very strong moral reason to be vegetarian, to not wear leather... it seems to me that our treatment of animals is morally appalling... and that we ought to radically revise the way we live, precisely because they feel pain, they can be hurt, and weβre constantly hurting these creatures!"
"Nature has placed mankind under the governance of two sovereign masters, pain and pleasure. It is for them alone to point out what we ought to do, as well as to determine what we shall do. On the one hand the standard of right and wrong, on the other the chain of causes and effects, are fastened to their throne. They govern us in all we do, in all we say, in all we think: every effort we can make to throw off our subjection, will serve but to demonstrate and confirm it. In words a man may pretend to abjure their empire: but in reality he will remain subject to it all the while. The principle of utility recognizes this subjection, and assumes it for the foundation of that system, the object of which is to rear the fabric of felicity by the hands of reason and of law. Systems which attempt to question it, deal in sounds instead of sense, in caprice instead of reason, in darkness instead of light."
"My pain is constant and sharp, and I do not hope for a better world for anyone."
"A sight to touch eβen hatredβs self with pity."
"Sometimes, for revenge to be as sweet and painful as it is intended, some time has to pass. Time enough that people have forgotten about past hurts and humiliations. Time enough to make the poison of bitterness consume a soul. It was to be that time... Two worlds collide and find a common link. A plan was made, a price was paid and revenge was set in motion."
"You know I understand how you feel... the loneliness that sets in...how empty your heart aches wishing you had someone near...to hold... to kiss and love. That type of passion poets write about...that person your souls yearns yet can not find...that love that all time will lie down and be still for... but at last it feels ever more like a cruel joke and fickle fate which has no plans of happiness...we drudge on with our existence trying to make sense of it...then slowly you feel the light dim...till it blows out. You've set yourself in complete darkness, with no direction, fully immersing yourself in confusion, doubt and suffer. Feeding your starving desires with delusions; completely disabling your inner mind from seeing the ugly truth beyond the shattered reality. You look at yourself through a contaminated mirror, seeing what you want to see from a certain angle, completely ignoring the faults and imperfections hidden under the surface. I petty the day that will wash your fickle images, scattering your true colors to yourself not more... As I see through what you choose to hide."
"I hid my wound under my clothes. Nobody could see it, including myself, and I completely forgot about it. Then I met someone who, filled with love, held me tight in that point. The pain was devastating, and I hated him, o how much I hated him, the cause of all my suffering. Then I met someone, beautifully dressed, and I loved him so much, holding him tight with all my passion. And he suffered badly, and he hated me, o how much he hated me, the cause of all his pain. So the story went on till I met someone who undressed himself, standing completely naked, with all his horrible wounds. Hence I also undressed, and I saw my horrible wounds, which he could also see. Then..."
"When you are deeply in love,. even the smallest thing can hurt u like hell and break u into pieces..."
"Instead of hating, my heart cries mercy! Mercy on me! Mercy on me! Mercy on me!"
"Please don't trouble yourself with my scars. At least not right now, OK?"
"Pain withheld becomes hate, pain shared becomes love."
"The way he looks at me makes me ache, but it isnβt fair. He hurt me first. He caused this ache from the start. This inside out, churning pain that feels mental and physical now. I fiddle with my hands, peering up at him again, and all I can think is, God, I wish heβd stop staring at me like that."
"It's not love that you hate, it's the loved one who betrayed."
"Thought is everything. Pain is something. Hence where there is no thought there can be no pain. Wherefore if you have a pain it is evident that you have a thought. To be rid of the pain stop thinking."
"Isn't it amazing that weβll cause ourselves more pain by thinking about, and avoiding something weβre afraid of, or something we know we must deal with, but don't want to face? The best thing you can do is just do it, just face the fear and get it over with. How do you get the courage? You create your courage by just taking actionβ¦"
"In the face of every type of pain, we tend to think that life will never be the same, but guess what, it was never going to be the same anyway."
"Man is to be understood only in his relation to God."
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