Shannon L. Alder
"True love is not a question. It is an answer that you never have to spend a lifetime figuring out."
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"True love is not a question. It is an answer that you never have to spend a lifetime figuring out."
"الحب الحقيقي ليس سؤالًا. إنه جواب لا تحتاج أبدًا أن تقضي عمرًا في محاولة اكتشافه."
Shannon L. Alder
"The only person worth risking everything for is the one person that would never let you risk everything for."
"إن من يستحق أن تضحي بكل شيء من أجله، هو بالذات من لن يسمح لك بالتضحية بشيء أبدًا."
Shannon L. Alder
"It is not what they say, but the reaction that tells you everything you need to know."
"ليس ما يقولونه، بل رد فعلهم هو ما يخبرك بكل ما تحتاج معرفته."
Shannon L. Alder
"Forever echoed in their favor. "Never say never", she said softly. For you see, Forever had never heard of Never."
"تَرَدَّدَ صَدَاهُ أَبَدًا لِصَالِحِهِم. "لا تَقُلْ أَبَدًا"، قَالَتْ بِرِقَّةٍ. فَأَنْتَ تَرَى، أَبَدًا لَمْ تَسْمَعْ قَطُّ عَنْ أَبَدًا."
Shannon L. Alder
"People seldom change. Only their masks do. It is only our perception of them and the perception they have of themselves that actually change."
"قلما يتغير الناس. أقنعتهم وحدها هي التي تتبدل. وما يتغير حقًا هو نظرتنا إليهم، ونظرتهم هم إلى ذواتهم."
Shannon L. Alder
"The more you rationalize, the more you move farther away from your authentic self."
"كلما أكثرت من التبرير العقلي، ازددت ابتعادًا عن ذاتك الأصيلة."
Shannon L. Alder
"If someone wants to be in your life they will find you. If they don't they will find an excuse."
"من أراد أن يكون جزءًا من حياتك، سيجدك. وإن لم يُرد، سيجد عذرًا."
Shannon L. Alder
"The need for control always comes from someone that has lost it."
"إن الحاجة إلى السّيطرة تنبع دائمًا ممن فقدها."
Shannon L. Alder
"What I find predictable is crazy people's ability to predict that unpredictable people can be predicted by their consistent unpredictable behavior, thus making all crazy people predictable when the world says they are unpredictable. Therefore, I must be “right” because I can predict crazy because I have been trained in the unpredictable nature of consistent craziness because I am crazy."
"ما أجده متوقعًا هو قدرة المجانين على التنبؤ بأن من لا يمكن التنبؤ بهم يمكن التنبؤ بهم من خلال سلوكهم الثابت غير المتوقع، مما يجعل جميع المجانين متوقعين حين يصفهم العالم بأنهم غير متوقعين. وعليه، لا بد أنني "على صواب" لأني أستطيع التنبؤ بالجنون، فقد تدربت على الطبيعة غير المتوقعة للجنون المستمر، لأني مجنون."
Shannon L. Alder
"Empowered Women 101: If they made you an option you will always be an option vs. the person they really wanted. Don't ever settle for someone that makes you go through hell only to stay with you because they don't have the confidence to go get what they really want. Fear will always follow your rules when they know they don't have options that make them stay comfortable. You won't grow real love in this type of a relationship. You will water weeds and call it a garden."
"المرأة القوية 101: إذا جعلوك خيارًا، فستظلين دائمًا خيارًا، لا الشخص الذي أرادوه حقًا. لا ترضي أبدًا بشخص يجعلك تمرّين بالجحيم، فقط ليبقى معك لأنه يفتقر إلى الثقة ليذهب ويحصل على ما يريده حقًا. الخوف سيتبع دائمًا قواعدك عندما يعلمون أن ليس لديهم خيارات تبقيهم مرتاحين. لن تنمّي حبًا حقيقيًا في هذا النوع من العلاقات. ستسقين الأعشاب الضارة وتسمينها حديقة."
Shannon L. Alder
"Winning or losing achieves the same result--change."
Shannon L. Alder
"Your expectations of other people should never be greater than what you expect of God. Why is it that you can patiently wait for him to make your life better, but you won't consider he is patiently waiting for you to be better?"
Shannon L. Alder
"Learn to be a responder, not a reactor."
Shannon L. Alder
"The question isn't who will be with me in life, rather how will I create the ending I am proud of?"
Shannon L. Alder
"Sometimes you can't agree with people because you would both be wrong."
Shannon L. Alder
"The most common lie you will ever tell God is your opportunity to do the right thing was taken from you."
Shannon L. Alder
"Empowered Women 101: A confident woman takes him for exactly who he is, not who she wants him to be. He is who he is, take it or leave it before you get married. This is the ground level of your partner. Together you can grow from here. However, if you are still teaching basic kindergarten values such as kindness, compassion, respect or honesty then you shouldn't complain if your ground level has a basement."
Shannon L. Alder
"Immorality is the word we use to describe people that are not sinning the same way we are."
Shannon L. Alder
"Your religion is not what you do on Sunday. It is how you live Monday through Saturday."
Shannon L. Alder
"Inspirational people weren't meant to be enablers. They were meant to empower!"
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