Greg Behrendt
"..he may love you, he may miss you, but ultimately he's just not that into you."
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"..he may love you, he may miss you, but ultimately he's just not that into you."
"قد يحبك، وقد يشتاق إليك، لكنه في الحقيقة لا يراك شريكًا لحياته."
Greg Behrendt
He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys
"The quickest way to rectify that mistake (choosing the wrong person) is by learning from that, moving on, and choosing much more wisely in the future."
"أسرع سبيل لتدارك ذلك الخطأ هو التعلم منه، والمضي قدمًا، وحسن الاختيار في المستقبل."
Greg Behrendt
He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys
"I believe in love the verb, not the noun."
"أؤمن بالحب فعلًا لا اسمًا."
Greg Behrendt
He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys
"We're taught that in life, we should try to look on the bright side. Not in this case. In this case, assume rejection first. Assume you're the rule, not the exception. It's liberating. But we also know it's not an easy concept. -He's not just into you"
"يُلقّنوننا في الحياة أن نسعى دائمًا لرؤية الجانب المشرق. إلا في هذه الحالة. هنا، افترض الرفض بادئ ذي بدء. افترض أنك القاعدة، لا الاستثناء. إنه تحرّر. لكننا ندرك في الوقت ذاته أنه ليس مفهومًا سهل الاستيعاب."
Greg Behrendt
"I do think that you can dress yourself out of a problem. The way that a haircut and a new pair of pants can make you feel is better than any therapist, because when you look in the mirror, you see a different person - you are a different person. It's superficial change that can lead to real change."
"أرى أن المرء قد يجد في مظهره سبيلاً للخروج من مآزقه. إن وقع قصة شعر جديدة أو حلة أنيقة على النفس، لأعظم من أثر أي معالج؛ فما إن تنظر في المرآة حتى ترى وجهاً آخر، بل كياناً متجدداً. إنه تحول ظاهري قد يكون مفتاحاً لتغيير عميق وأصيل."
Greg Behrendt
"I think probably - I think, you know, when you're first dating somebody, if they're just not that physical with you, if they don't want to make concrete plans with you, you know, if they're sort of ambiguous about where everything is going, I think that's a pretty good sign that they're not into you."
"أظنّ، في بواكير أي علاقة، أن افتقار الطرف الآخر إلى الحميمية الجسدية، أو تردده في تحديد خطط ملموسة، أو غموضه حيال وجهة الأمور، لهو مؤشرٌ بيّنٌ على عدم اكتراثه بك."
Greg Behrendt
"I've never tried to pass myself off as anything more than a comedian who wrote a dating book."
"لم أدّعِ قط أنني أكثر من مجرد فكاهي ألّف كتاباً عن المواعدة."
Greg Behrendt
"I've learned that anything in life worth having comes from patience and hard work."
"لقد أدركت أن كل ما يستحق العناء في هذه الحياة لا يُنال إلا بالصبر والكد."
Greg Behrendt
"You picked a lemon, throw it away lemonade is overrated. Freaks should remain at the circus, not in your apartment. You already have one asshole. You don’t need another. Make a space in your life for the glorious things you deserve. Have faith."
"لقد وقع اختيارك على ما لا خير فيه، فتخلص منه. لا تبالغ في تقدير ما قد ينتج عنه من خير مزعوم. دع الغرباء والشواذ في أماكنهم المخصصة، لا في مسكنك الخاص. لديك بالفعل وغد في حياتك، لست بحاجة إلى آخر. افسح في حياتك مجالًا للأمور المجيدة التي تليق بك. تحلَّ بالإيمان."
Greg Behrendt
He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys
"Let’s start with this statistic: You are delicious. Be brave, my sweet. I know you can get lonely. I know you can crave companionship and sex and love so badly that it physically hurts. But I truly believe that the only way you can find out that there’s something better out there is to first believe there’s something better out there. What other choice is there?"
"لنبدأ بهذه الإحصائية: أنت شهي. كن شجاعًا يا حبيبي. أعلم أنك قد تشعر بالوحدة. أعلم أنك قد تتوق إلى الرفقة والجنس والحب بشدة حتى يؤلمك جسديًا. لكنني أؤمن حقًا أن الطريقة الوحيدة لتكتشف أن هناك شيئًا أفضل في الخارج هي أن تؤمن أولاً بوجود شيء أفضل في الخارج. أي خيار آخر هناك؟"
Greg Behrendt
He's Just Not That Into You
"Here's something else to think about: calling when you say you're going to is the very first brick in the house you are building of love and trust. If he can't lay this one stupid brick down, you ain't never gonna have a house baby, and it's cold outside."
"إليكِ شيئًا آخر للتفكير فيه: الاتصال الهاتفي حين تقول إنك ستفعل هو اللبنة الأولى في بيت الحب والثقة الذي تبنينه. إذا لم يستطع وضع هذه اللبنة السخيفة الواحدة، فلن يكون لكِ بيت أبدًا يا عزيزتي، والجو بارد في الخارج."
Greg Behrendt
He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys
"If he’s not calling you, it’s because you are not on his mind. If he creates expectations for you, and then doesn’t follow through on little things, he will do same for big things. Be aware of this and realize that he’s okay with disappointing you. Don’t be with someone who doesn’t do what they say they’re going to do. If he’s choosing not to make a simple effort that would put you at ease and bring harmony to a recurring fight, then he doesn’t respect your feelings and needs. Busy is another word for asshole. Asshole is another word for the guy you’re dating. You deserve a fcking phone call."
"إذا لم يتصل بك، فذلك لأنك لست في باله. وإذا خلق لكِ توقعات ثم لم يلتزم بالصغائر، فسيفعل الأمر ذاته في الكبائر. انتبهي لهذا وأدركي أنه لا يبالي بخذلك. لا تكوني مع شخص لا يصدق قوله بفعله. إذا اختار ألا يبذل جهدًا يسيرًا يريحك ويجلب السكينة لخلاف متكرر، فهو لا يحترم مشاعرك واحتياجاتك. "مشغول" كلمة أخرى لوصف "حقير". و"حقير" كلمة أخرى لوصف الرجل الذي تواعدينه. أنتِ تستحقين مكالمة هاتفية، بحق الجحيم."
Greg Behrendt
"I'm about to make a wild, extreme and severe relationship rule: the word busy is a load of crap and is most often used by assholes. The word busy is the relationship Weapon of Mass Destruction. It seems like a good excuse, but in fact in every silo you uncover, all you're going to find is a man who didn't care enough to call. Remember men are never to busy to get what they want."
"أنا على وشك أن أضع قاعدة علاقات جامحة، متطرفة، وقاسية: كلمة "مشغول" هي محض هراء، وغالبًا ما يتذرع بها عديمو المبالاة. إن كلمة "مشغول" هي سلاح الدمار الشامل في العلاقات. قد تبدو عذرًا وجيهًا، لكن في الحقيقة، كلما كشفت الستار عن خباياها، لن تجد سوى رجل لم يكترث بما يكفي ليتصل. تذكري أن الرجال لا ينشغلون أبدًا عن نيل ما يصبون إليه."
Greg Behrendt
"Bored with the same type of misery over and over and over again."
"مللتُ من تكرار البؤس ذاته مراراً وتكراراً وتكراراً."
Greg Behrendt
"A friend of mine told a story about a date with a guy she was really excited about: He stood her up. He then called her, begging her forgiveness and giving some excuse. She told him to get lost, telling him that he only gets one shot with her, and he blew it."
"حدثتني صديقة لي قصة عن موعد غرامي كانت متحمسة له للغاية مع شاب: لقد تخلف عن الموعد. ثم اتصل بها، متوسلاً الصفح ومقدماً بعض الأعذار. فأخبرته أن يذهب إلى الجحيم، قائلة له إنه لا يملك معها سوى فرصة واحدة، وقد أضاعها."
Greg Behrendt
"“I'm about to make a wild, extreme and severe relationship rule: the word busy is a load of crap and is most often used by assholes. The word busy is the relationship Weapon of Mass Destruction. It seems like a good excuse, but in fact in every silo you uncover, all you're going to find is a man who didn't care enough to call. Remember men are never to busy to get what they want.”"
Greg Behrendt
"“If he’s not calling you, it’s because you are not on his mind. If he creates expectations for you, and then doesn’t follow through on little things, he will do same for big things. Be aware of this and realize that he’s okay with disappointing you. Don’t be with someone who doesn’t do what they say they’re going to do. If he’s choosing not to make a simple effort that would put you at ease and bring harmony to a recurring fight, then he doesn’t respect your feelings and needs. “Busy” is another word for “asshole.” “Asshole” is another word for the guy you’re dating. You deserve a fcking phone call.”"
Greg Behrendt
"First of all, never buy a man a plasma TV until you're married. A lot of men once they have a plasma TV they don't need a girlfriend"
Greg Behrendt
"Cheaters never prosper. (Because they suck.)"
Greg Behrendt
"We're taught that in life, we should try to look on the bright side. Not in this case. In this case, assume rejection first. Assume you're the rule, not the exception. It's liberating. But we also know it's not an easy concept. -He's not just into you"
Greg Behrendt
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